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Individual counselling

Individual counselling in Howick and online across New Zealand

You do not need to be in crisis to want things to feel different. Practical, compassionate one-to-one support can start wherever you are.

A place to make sense of things

Counselling can begin before things become overwhelming.

You might know exactly what you want help with, or you might only know that something has not felt right for a while.

Individual counselling gives you a steady place to slow things down, understand what is happening and work toward changes that fit your actual life. Jon's approach is collaborative and person-centred, with practical tools used when they are helpful.

You are not expected to arrive with the right words, a diagnosis or a perfectly defined goal. We can work that out together.

Prefer to meet by video? Learn more about online counselling across New Zealand. If you want support together with a partner, explore couples counselling in Howick and online.

People you can talk to

Individual counselling at Four Pillars

Work with Jon in Howick or online, or book an online individual session with Dan.

Associate Counsellor · Online across New Zealand

Dan Jamieson

Down-to-earth individual counselling with a pluralistic approach.

Book Dan online

NZ$130 for a 50-minute online session. Available Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 3–7 pm New Zealand time.

Not sure who may suit you? Jon is happy to help you work out where to start.

What people bring

Support for the things that are getting in the way

These are common starting points, not a checklist you need to fit.

Anxiety & overthinking

When your mind stays switched on, worry is hard to contain or stress is taking up too much space.

Depression & low mood

Support when motivation is depleted, things feel flat or it is becoming harder to see a way forward.

Relationships & boundaries

A place to understand recurring patterns, conflict, attachment, people-pleasing and what you need from relationships.

Burnout & pressure

For feeling stretched too thin, carrying too much responsibility or struggling to switch off from work and expectations.

Grief & life changes

Space to process loss, separation, relocation, career change or another season that has shifted your sense of stability.

Identity & self-esteem

Explore confidence, belonging, sexuality, culture, faith, masculinity and the stories you carry about yourself.

What sessions are like

Warm, grounded and useful

The work is shaped around you rather than forcing every concern into one therapy model.

01

Start with what is happening now

We begin with what has brought you in, what matters most and what you would like to be different.

02

Understand the pattern

We slow things down enough to notice the thoughts, emotions, relationships and experiences that may be keeping the problem going.

03

Build a way forward

Depending on what fits, sessions can include reflection, practical strategies, experiments between sessions and clearer next steps.

Not sure whether counselling is warranted?

That uncertainty is common.

You can read more about recognising when support may be useful without waiting for a crisis.

What happens in your first counselling session? →8 signs it may be time to talk to someone →When success still doesn’t feel like enough →When is it “bad enough” for counselling? →

Ready when you are

You can start from wherever you are.

Choose a 50-minute individual appointment in Howick or online, or contact Jon if you have a question first.

Book Jon in HowickChoose an online counsellorContact Jon